It's interesting that lesbians, for some reason or another, don't care for the heterosexual companionship of a male, yet they during intimacy with each other will simulate the male penis by using a "strap-on" toy. Go figure. ...and females should never allow a male to insert his penis in her rectum/anus where it doesn't belong, and, by design, was not intended to go there. Yet, if the female is involved with a male who likes to insert his penis into her rectum, the female should let him know that because both males and females have a rectum/anus, ask him to let her strap on her toy and since ladies are first, allow her to put her 9", 2.5" diameter dildo in his ass FIRST so he will know how uncomfortable it is. (unless he has "sugar" in his tank and is a closet homosexual) Real talk.